What is difficult to you?
When we all were in our childhood, we do have had
difficulties like lots of homework assigned. The life we were having is now
desirable to us, but why not at that time? This question we all have to focus
on. The answer can change our mindset for our current and future difficulties.
At the time of childhood, we were having a burden less life except for the
school, and tuition work. We did not have financial issues at that time; it was
a tension free life. That homework was not a burden in-front of the
difficulties we have today. So why is that we do have something as a difficulty
at certain times but not afterwards. It is because as we are all human, we do
have an inbuilt focus that goes heavily on hardness in our life. When we were
children, we did not realize the difference between the adult life and the
childhood. This focus is one of the reasons that we make our difficulties to
get prominent in our mindset while analyzing our life. How to overcome that?
The answer is we should be thankful for the good we face. It will need some
practice but as it will be practiced we will know how beautiful our life is,
how cooperative and nice are the people that are close to us. Secondly we do
consider certain things hard to do because it is new to us. When I entered a
mature life in which I was newly able to practice cognitive thinking, I really
saw many things impossible for me to do. But as I moved on in my life further,
those impossibilities were turning into possibilities and even easy for me to
do. Why was that? It was because I was becoming used to it. Just take an
example of public speaking. When we face it as a new thing, it seems
impossible, but as we practice it turns possible and then easy for us later on.
So, practice is the key to turn impossible into possible. You should practice,
practice and practice to become the master in your life, but practice what interests you.
An additional tip I want to give is; do what seems
interested to you. If you found yourself not interested in anything, you might
be wrong. You just need to discover yourself, you need to spend time with
yourself and ask questions to yourself. You will definitely find your interest
in something positive for yourself and for others as well. As we all are human
and the real humans feel happy by helping others. Be happy, be positive.
Thank you
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